Although you’re genuine, confident, and worthy of love, you have to make the effort to shift into - and stick to - the proper vibration to receive the love you desire.
It’s irritating to hear someone tell you that you have to make an effort to shape up in some way while men get off easy. But the way you’re showing up in the world is blocking you from the right man.
You can know and declare to all who hear that you are a queen. But anytime you struggle to exude mesmerizing, alluring energy, you’ll fail to inspire any man to take action.
Now listen. You can try to do this by yourself. Many women have figured it out independently, and many will continue to do so.
You can get advice, read articles, and watch all the YouTube videos you want. But if you’re not owning your femininity as a form of influence, you’re not showing up in an attractive way. In fact, you’re working against God instead of with Him, and then wondering why it’s not working out.
All the stuff you read online or chat to your girlfriends about won’t work because the journey to love starts deep within.
Deep, transformative love - the kind you’re craving from a man - starts with you. You must feel ready, capable, and confident that you can attract the man you want - long BEFORE he crosses your path.
Shifting into your femininity, relaxing, and allowing your power to work for you can be scary and unsettling. But it works. Masculine energy cannot help but be attracted to femininity.
If you’re open to learn the secrets of relaxing into your femininity and using your natural allure to transform your interactions with men, that’s what I’ll help you do in my jumpstart program, Attract a Man You Want.
Attract A Man You Want is a 12- week dating program that focuses on the inner work as well as the practical skills (both spiritual and romantic). It's for the woman who wants to embody her femininity to get asked out, yet doesn't know how.
It takes the effort off of performance (including the need to “look” a certain way) and puts it on connection, which is what men truly desire from you.
When I signed up, I was looking for a mindset shift that would improve my perception of men, dating, and my ability to enjoy a successful love life. Results came fast and quick. Monique’s trainings, plus the opportunities to apply, were so helpful. I am celebrating the changes in my life since working with Monique. I’ve released so many unwanted beliefs and now I'm more confident in myself when I encounter men. I can hold a conversation without being a nervous wreck
Working with Monique opened my eyes to men in a different way. She spoke directly to me because she addressed women like me who wanted to be more feminine and alluring, yet didn’t know where to begin. She taught me how to show my feminine side and how to temper my masculine side. Now, men approach more often, and I’ve learned to own my feminine and feel good expressing myself. Any woman who desires to express her feminine qualities yet doesn’t know how should speak to Monique. You’re worth the peace of mind you’ll get from working with her.
You’ll be more visible to men everywhere.
No more having to go to the club to be seen!
No more negative thoughts about whether or not he’s going to call, or if he’s the one.
No more fiddling through a million YouTube videos and old text messages to decode what he’s doing.
You’ll stop being flustered, frustrated by, and reactive to circumstances. You’ll know exactly what to do if he ghosts, clings too much, tries to manipulate you, or just doesn’t provide the kind of balance you desire.
You’ll find peace in being yourself, which helps you develop valuable connections with men wherever you go. You’ll magnetize men (and other amazing opportunities) because you’ll bring the vibe of Feminine Influence™ and all its joie de vivre wherever you go.
Exude joy, allure, and love wherever you go, and you’ll experience the joy of being romantically and playfully chased. Men will flock to you in droves, inspired by your charming allure and the positive expectations you project on those around you.
We identify the type of man you desire and wish to meet. We start here because it's vital that you feel focused and secure in yourself so you can trust your decision making.
We examine your current state of mind and conquer your inner game by clearing beliefs, history, and past hurts so you can create love. By releasing the fear and unwanted beliefs, you can show up as a high-value Headturner!
Practice feeling confident, at ease, and excited to be a woman so you can take the pressure off and have fun.
There are specific practices you can do to be bold while remaining grounded, present, and out of your head. With this step, you'll use your unspoken communication to feel yourself become more confident and therefore attractive.
With this step, you'll create awareness that men are everywhere. We'll also identify the best locations for you to meet quality men and know how to spot the good ones.
In this section, you'll use your Influence Style™, send out attraction signals, and invite men in.
You'll move powerfully by mastering first conversation basics, spot the red flags, decline gracefully, and assess compatibility so you can find and keep someone who's a great fit.
I'm a confident woman, but I had trouble attracting men in a romantic way. I just finished the program and I'm talking to two guys now. I'm actually excited about meeting men. I'm excited about getting attention, and I'm excited about my potential in life in general. This program is definitely worth it!
I wanted to be more feminine and alluring, and master the art of walking, talking, and smiling with polish. I invested in myself with prayer and faith – and I attracted a great guy. I met him at the beginning of the program. I wasn’t ready to jump into anything, so I allowed myself to practice with him. He didn’t give me any butterflies at first, but as our connection grew, I realized that for once, I created the situation. This was a reciprocal situation, not one where I was “chosen” and dealt with the choice of letting someone else’s plans “unfold” around me.
I'm a Detroit native and graduate from the University of Michigan and Saint Louis University School of Law. I live in St. Louis, Missouri with my witty husband and our two daughters.
While in law school, I became fascinated with Feminine Influence™, formerly Feminine Allure. As a young woman, I went through the typical struggles of dating good men, and not so good men. Over time, my interest developed into a passion, until I realized it was my divine assignment.
After thoroughly refining the component parts of Feminine Influence™, I began teaching what I’d learned to women in my online community. Their results were so positive that I intensified the work.
My 6-step signature process not only helped women blossom into their full feminine potential, it also empowered them to find the men they’d dreamed of meeting, but secretly feared they never would.
Today, I'm a femininity educator committed to providing Christian women, especially Black women, with the insights and skills needed to create life-long loving relationship. My spiritual, faith-focused approach couples tough love with good vibes. By strengthening and arming their spirits, I'm enabling women to leave their pasts in the past, and open their hearts to love.