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Tell me, Does this Sound like You?

  • You feel yourself tense up around a man you like, and after it's over you ask "why?"
  • You agonize over whether you’re meant for a relationship because you haven’t experienced anything real and true with men before.
  • You’re constantly wondering, “God, where is he? When are You sending him?”
  • You're tired and drained by the men who seem curious at the beginning but don't commit.
  • You’ve “let go and let God,” but you don’t really believe God will make it happen for you when it comes to love.

you're sick and tired of being sick and tired

Although you’re genuine, confident, and worthy of love, you have to make the effort to shift into - and stick to - the proper vibration to receive the love you desire. 

It’s irritating to hear someone tell you that you have to make an effort to shape up in some way while men get off easy. But the way you’re showing up in the world is blocking you from the right man.

You can know and declare to all who hear that you are a queen. But anytime you struggle to exude mesmerizing, alluring energy, you’ll fail to inspire any man to take action.

Now listen. You can try to do this by yourself. Many women have figured it out independently, and many will continue to do so. 

You can get advice, read articles, and watch all the YouTube videos you want. But if you’re not owning your femininity as a form of influence, you’re not showing up in an attractive way. In fact, you’re working against God instead of with Him, and then wondering why it’s not working out. 

All the stuff you read online or chat to your girlfriends about won’t work because the journey to love starts deep within. 

Deep, transformative love - the kind you’re craving from a man - starts with you. You must feel ready, capable, and confident that you can attract the man you want - long BEFORE he crosses your path.

Shifting into your femininity, relaxing, and allowing your power to work for you can be scary and unsettling. But it works. Masculine energy cannot help but be attracted to femininity. 

If you’re open to learn the secrets of relaxing into your femininity and using your natural allure to transform your interactions with men, that’s what I’ll help you do in my jumpstart program, Attract a Man You Want.


Attract A Man You Want is a 12- week dating program that focuses on the inner work as well as the practical skills (both spiritual and romantic). It's for the woman who wants to embody her femininity to get asked out, yet doesn't know how. 

It takes the effort off of performance (including the need to “look” a certain way) and puts it on connection, which is what men truly desire from you.

"I can hold a conversation without being a nervous wreck." 

When I signed up, I was looking for a mindset shift that would improve my perception of men, dating, and my ability to enjoy a successful love life. Results came fast and quick. Monique’s trainings, plus the opportunities to apply, were so helpful. I am celebrating the changes in my life since working with Monique. I’ve released so many unwanted beliefs and  now I'm more confident in myself when I encounter men. I can hold a conversation without being a nervous wreck


" Now, men approach more often..."

Working with Monique opened my eyes to men in a different way. She spoke directly to me because she addressed women like me who wanted to be more feminine and alluring, yet didn’t know where to begin. She taught me how to show my feminine side and how to temper my masculine side. Now, men approach more often, and I’ve learned to own my feminine and feel good expressing myself. Any woman who desires to express her feminine qualities yet doesn’t know how should speak to Monique. You’re worth the peace of mind you’ll get from working with her.


what You can expect after attract a man you want

After completing Attract A Man You Want You'll...

Get asked out
Connect with men without using sex as a strategy
Know how to be proactive and flirty, without chasing a man. EVER. 
Possess inner strength to let love in
Be prepared for whoever comes into your life, whether he's a match or not

You’ll be more visible to men everywhere.

No more having to go to the club to be seen!

No more negative thoughts about whether or not he’s going to call, or if he’s the one.

No more fiddling through a million YouTube videos and old text messages to decode what he’s doing.

You’ll stop being flustered, frustrated by, and reactive to circumstances. You’ll know exactly what to do if he ghosts, clings too much, tries to manipulate you, or just doesn’t provide the kind of balance you desire.

You’ll find peace in being yourself, which helps you develop valuable connections with men wherever you go. You’ll magnetize men (and other amazing opportunities) because you’ll bring the vibe of Feminine Influence™ and all its joie de vivre wherever you go. 

Exude joy, allure, and love wherever you go, and you’ll experience the joy of being romantically and playfully chased. Men will flock to you in droves, inspired by your charming allure and the positive expectations you project on those around you. 

Here's What You Get When You Join

Seven (7) Self-Study Skill Building Modules
Three (3) Live, Interactive Calls each month 
Access to "Members Only" Facebook Group 
Access to Recordings of Your Calls
Interactive Workbooks  

Module # 1 Get Crystal Clear on Your Vision and Values

We identify the type of man you desire and wish to meet. We start here because it's vital that you feel focused and secure in yourself so you can trust your decision making. 

Module # 2 Be The Love you Seek 

We examine your current state of mind and conquer your inner game by clearing beliefs, history, and past hurts so you can create love. By releasing the fear and unwanted beliefs, you can show up as a high-value Headturner!

Module # 3 Make Yourself Instantly More Attractive 

Practice feeling confident, at ease, and excited to be a woman so you can take the pressure off and have fun.

Module # 4 Attract Men From Across The Room

There are specific practices you can do to be bold while remaining grounded, present, and out of your head. With this step, you'll use your unspoken communication to feel yourself become more confident and therefore attractive.

Module # 5 Meet Men Everywhere

With this step, you'll create awareness that men are everywhere. We'll also identify the best locations for you to meet quality men and know how to spot the good ones.

Module #6 Trigger The Hunt

In this section, you'll use your Influence Style™, send out attraction signals, and invite men in.

Module # 7 Master Early Conversations

You'll move powerfully by mastering first conversation basics, spot the red flags, decline gracefully, and assess compatibility so you can find and keep someone who's a great fit.

"By week three, I was attracting men" 

I'm a confident woman, but I had trouble attracting men in a romantic way. I just finished the program and I'm talking to two guys now. I'm actually excited about meeting men. I'm excited about getting attention, and  I'm excited about my potential in life in general. This program is definitely worth it! 


"I attracted a great guy"

 I wanted to be more feminine and alluring, and master the art of walking, talking, and smiling with polish. I invested in myself with prayer and faith – and I attracted a great guy. I met him at the beginning of the program. I wasn’t ready to jump into anything, so I allowed myself to practice with him. He didn’t give me any butterflies at first, but as our connection grew, I realized that for once, I created the situation. This was a reciprocal situation, not one where I was “chosen” and dealt with the choice of letting someone else’s plans “unfold” around me.


Hi, I'm monique

I'm a Detroit native and graduate from the University of Michigan and Saint Louis University School of Law. I live in St. Louis, Missouri with my witty husband and our two daughters.

While in law school, I became fascinated with Feminine Influence™, formerly Feminine Allure. As a young woman, I went through the typical struggles of dating good men, and not so good men. Over time, my interest developed into a passion, until I realized it was my divine assignment.

After thoroughly refining the component parts of Feminine Influence™, I began teaching what I’d learned to women in my online community. Their results were so positive that I intensified the work. 

My 6-step signature process not only helped women blossom into their full feminine potential, it also empowered them to find the men they’d dreamed of meeting, but secretly feared they never would.

Today, I'm a femininity educator committed to providing Christian women, especially Black women, with the insights and skills needed to create life-long loving relationship. My spiritual, faith-focused approach couples tough love with good vibes.  By strengthening and arming their spirits, I'm enabling women to leave their pasts in the past, and open their hearts to love.

Now, I know you're wondering how much? but let's talk about the cost before we talk the investment. Shall we?

What's the emotional cost of staying exactly where you are? 

  • How much does it hurt to keep repeating having the same man with a different face?
  • How much does it hurt to run good men away because you’re scared, guarded, feel unworthy, or simply don’t believe you can be loved?
  • How much does it hurt to feel successful in every area of your life, except this area, the one where things are "just supposed to happen"?
  • How much does it hurt to have your insecurity run the show?

And, what's it worth to you to...?

  • What’s it’s worth to you to feel like a woman who gets asked out by quality guys?
  • What's it worth to you to be on a proven path towards a life-long loving relationship with your special person? 
  • What's it worth to you to feel confident in your ability to inspire commitment in the man of your dreams?
  • What’s it worth to you to end the  generational curses of loneliness, divorce, brokenness, and single motherhood?
  • What’s it worth to you to have spiritual, romantic, and practical skills that attract men, money, and more?

Ready for love, but not sure where to start? Feminine Influence™ might be that final step you need. Attract A Man you Want today and give God the thumbs up that you're ready to co-create that next level of life, life, and loyalty now. 

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