SeIf I'm right about you, I know you desire love, but fear heartbreak.You’ve been hurt one too many times in the past, so instead of proactively claiming your desires, you surrender to the situation.In your mind, you’re “waiting on God” to enact His will while you fantasize about the day things change. But in truth, you’re really just slowing down your process.If you know you are meant to be an alluring woman...perhaps a mom and a wife – and meant to do your part to build His kingdom – this is a disservice to your ministry.

You see, basic women alleviate their accountability by putting the responsibility on God, man, and others to make life happen.But that's not you though. Your role as a woman is to exude and attract that which you want to you. But you can't, so you don't.Here's why. It's because you energetically fight the steps it takes to create change by choosing to remain in a state of indecision.Indecision is the highest form of self-sabotage. See... basic. I get it. Staying in your comfort zone feels soothing, but the side effects include:

• Feeling lost and stuck
• Wondering if something is wrong with you
• Lower self-esteem because you don’t have what you want
• Resentment seeing other women get the love you deserve but don’t have
• Remaining guarded – and possibly building up even more walls
• An inability to fully be yourself around others