One of my male colleagues once shared with me that “the only thing a man is afraid of or intimidated by is not being able to solve your problem.”  That statement alone will minister to you, if you let it.  Remember that men want to do for you, because it brings purpose to their lives. You are the yin to his yang. Yin and Yang is the Chinese philosophy that all things exist as inseparable and contradictory opposites. Yin and yang are seemingly opposite in nature, but they are part of nature. They rely on each other, and they can’t exist without each other.  What does this have to do with you?  Well, it’s this…Men take their cues from what you say and what you do. This is because his yang, which provides form to all things is purposeless without your yin, which provides the spirit to all things. Think about it like this. A vase is just an object. Sure, it can sit alone on your mantle or desk, but without the beautiful flowers, which brings both purpose and spirit to the vase, it’s just meh! Both work harmoniously to bring out the best version of itself.  Look, remember when I told you that men are waiting on you to get your act together. That’s because men want their spiritual standard to be raised, and that’s done primarily with your influence. So, if you’ve been told you’re intimidating and guarded it’s because you haven’t created the space for him to solve your problem, or at least to feel like he can please you You haven’t allowed him to witness your feminine nature, yet. As a result, he feels like he can’t make a difference for you, and he won’t be able to connect with you. Connection = commitment. Here’s the good news. You can create the opportunity for men to notice your Feminine Allure™.  You can capture the moments of defensiveness and turn them into moments of desire. This is one of the skills you will learn in the Feminine Allure Academy.The Feminine Allure Academy begun last night. We’re 50% full and it’s not too late for you if you are SERIOUS and READY to make love a priority this year. Would you like to learn how to turn break down the wall of reserve, both his and yours, and capture moments that spark desire?  If your answer is “ABSOLUTELY”, and you want to learn more about this skill and other skills you can learn that I teach in Feminine Allure Academy, then book your Chemistry Call.  Go here to review information about the program and you can book your call so that you don’t spend another day in emotional turmoil, wondering. >>http://feminineallure.co/faa<< To your enhancement, Monique