Ouch!I know it’s probably jarring to hear that. But, hear me out. My mother drilled into me the importance of positioning. When I was in college, instead of doing Teach for America, she encouraged me to get my teaching certification so that I could be positioned.While teaching, I got my Master’s in Education. During that program, I knew that I wouldn’t stay in Education. Since I had an entrepreneurial spirit, I semi-studied for the GMAT. I’ve always wanted to be in business for myself, I just didn’t know what I was going to sell. I realized didn’t need an MBA for the type of business I envisioned. Yet, I still didn’t know what type of business, I just knew it wasn’t the type where I needed an MBA. She encouraged me to go to law school not only because that’s what I said I wanted for myself, but also so that I could be positioned in life for what I wanted. What did I want? I wanted access, I wanted to increase my earning potential, and I wanted to situate myself for opportunities. Who knew that I would’ve started a blog in 2011 while in law school? Who knew that my blog would’ve positioned me for the work I’m doing today… helping women, like you, to blossom into the the best version of yourself, the self that attracts high-caliber men with grace and ease?Here’s why I’m sharing this with you. It’s because I want you to be in position… to have men chase you so you can turn around and catch’em. Here’s what I know. When it comes to having a meaningful relationship with an awesome masculine man, there’s something that’s hindering you. You’ve been listening to podcasts, reading articles and blogs, registering for summits, and binging on topics and coaches to help you get your man. Here’s the thing though… the man attraction strategies you been trying so hard to apply to your love life won’t work for you. Here’s why. It’s because you haven’t owned your influence yet. Instead, you’ve been focused on the “here and now”… the tactics of how to meet men and how to lasso them in. But when you own your influence, you’re positioned to meet and attract men who are smitten by you, you project confidence because you know you’re the prize, and you can trust your ability to choose healthy partners. Owning your influencing is about embodying feminine allure so that you can affect a man’s thinking and his actions. It shows up in what you say and how you speak, what you wear, how you walk. It’s your belief! And, you have to believe a thing before you truly become it. Once you’ve mastered your influence, then the man attraction strategies can work for you because you’ve positioned yourself. When you own your influence and master it, you can: • STOP feeling like hope is slipping away and START feeling like you’re polished and positioned to attract your high-caliber man. • STOP feeling confused because you don’t know who you should be or what you should be looking for and START identifying what you want and be proactive without seeming like you’re chasing the guy. • STOP being so serious so soon and START being the very spirit of fun and light because you’re prepared for whoever comes into your life, no matter what happens. • STOP keeping yourself busy with work or with an ex and START trusting yourself to let love in. You must fully embody the life you want to get the life you want. You want to be pursued by high-caliber men? Own your influence. You want to stop casual dating and be claimed via commitment? Own your influence. You want more help around the house? Own your influence. You want men to stop texting and start calling? Own your influence. Men take their cues from what we say and do. Think about it. From the beginning, men have been conditioned to obey women, starting with his mother. It’s already established that women reign in a position of influence. You just gotta own it girlfriend. I’d love to help you with that part. Stay tuned. To your enhancement, Monique P.S. Save The Date: Sunday, March 4th at 4:30pm PST/7:30pm EST, I’m conducting a webinar about this very topic and providing you with an introductory solution so you can become that influential and alluring woman. I can’t wait!