You Thought It Was Working, But It's Not

First of all, I want to thank every woman who has reached out to me. Based on the responses, some of you wonder if I’m psychic because I speak like a “fly on the wall.” LOL. That’s a great sign, because it means you’ll be open to hearing what’s next…You’ve significantly boosted your whip appeal as of recently. Fresh hair, clean nails, and updated statement pieces in your wardrobe. You’ve even taken things a step further and learned to flirt a little.And it’s workingMen have started to approach. Numbers have been exchanged, texts have been sent, and you’ve been celebrating small wins. But the victory’s short-lived, because men are leaving just as fast as they’re coming in – and you haven’t a clue what the issue is now.All the stuff you’ve done so far – the clothes, hair, and attitude – they’re great, but they’re also surface level. These shallow tactics only magnetize men for a few weeks, maybe a couple of months. Then it’s back to the drawing board.At this point, you've looked around yourself. You've looked into everyone else, and you've looked into your appearance. You're doing all the external behaviors, but you're not healing the root of the issue for why you don't have the man you want. We need to look deeper. You're close, but not fully there yet.You see, men are master energy readers. They dip when you become emotionally unavailable.There’s so much flack about how men have no feelings. Tuh! It’s not true. Men are very sensitive creatures. You’ll just never know it if you’re hiding behind your own walls.Emotionally available men need emotionally available women. Men love feminine women, and they’ll work with imperfection.They know all that glitters isn’t gold, however, they won’t deal with fighting your walls of protection to win your love. Only the players and narcissists will participate because it’s all part of their game.Listen, you can know and declare to all who hear that you deserve love. You can let the whole world know you are a queen. You can stamp Proverbs 31 on your head and let everyone know that “He who findeth ME findeth a good thing.”But nothing will happen if you don't shift.It’s time to stop focusing on the symptoms (men and how they respond to you) and focus on the root issue: mastering your Feminine Allure™.Feminine Allure™ helps you cultivate deep, transformative love - the kind you’re craving from a man. It starts with you. You must feel ready, capable, and confident that you can attract the man you want - well BEFORE he crosses your path.To do this, you must heal the root of the issue that's blocking you, like:

• Being stuck on someone who’s not right for you, years after it’s ended
• Being too rigid then wondering why men don't approach
• Blaming your physical appearance, justifying the belief it's your physical characteristics that block men
• Letting a man come over at 9pm when he hasn’t called you in 10 days  
• Going on toxic shopping sprees to numb the confusion and loneliness     
• Trying to making him a better version of himself, but he ain’t ready, leaving you with less money, miserable, and feeling some kinda way

This is evidence that you haven’t learned to use your magnetism to attract men, money, and more.It’s time to sit still to mind your magic and mind your magnetism.  Shift into Feminine Allure™ and you’ll put your power to work for you.If you’d like, I can show you how. Keep tuning in.MoniqueP.S. Men with focus, ambition, dedication, and commitment are out here. They’re aware 2020 is a new decade, and they want someone to share it with. They're looking for YOU.