are you pushing love away even as you search for it?

The year that I generated my highest revenue was also the year that I became a mom for the first time. It was also the year I went viral on YouTube.

Everything happened within a short amount of time, especially because I leaned into the energy of creation and into the feeling of abundance that being pregnant brought. 

It was everything I wanted.  AND, I was scared straight! 

It was scary to make that kind of money without working so hard.

I had met a revenue goal that I used to dream about and when it happened, I wasn’t prepared or even expecting what happened next… the fear, the doubts, the unhelpful thoughts. 

Long story short, I hired a coach to help me navigate the new territory.

And I wonder about this for you too, especially when it comes to dating… like, are you pushing love away, even as you search for it? 

This is a topic coming up often in my coaching sessions with private clients, so I discuss the concept of why this happens, and what you can do about it in this episode of What Your Mother Should’ve Taught You.