If you answered “false” good on you. If you answered “true” and you’re over 30, and your script is that you don’t meet men because you don’t go to clubs and bars, please stop. Right now.And, I say that lovingly.Men abound! You don’t have to go to bars, nightclubs, or even create online dating profiles if you don’t want to.You’ll meet your match at your 10, 20, or 30 year high school reunion.You’ll meet him at the (insert National Association Conference here).You’ll meet him while you’re shopping with your mom, at the outdoor outlet mall. You’ll meet him while you’re waiting for the folks at the Genius Bar of the Apple Store to call your name.You’ll meet him at the trivia night your co-worker invited you to.You’ll meet him midday, on a Tuesday, when you used your lunch break to run to the bank.You’ll meet him the morning, when you’re running late for work because you had to get an emissions check on your car. I could go on and on, but I think you get my point.You will have numerous passes and several options. Don’t believe the hype that there’s “just one” for you. You can have several matches. The question isn’t, “is he the one?” The question is “whom will you choose?”If you find that you’re not getting noticed, then there’s an absence of charisma, and so can’t show up in an alluring and powerful way.When you show up in an alluring and powerful way, you get to experience more meaningful connection, more consistently.You won’t have to struggle to put yourself out there. Instead, you can just “be” while using both your body and your energy to communicate charisma so that you make a lasting, positive impression.I know what you’re thinking, “Well, how the heck can I communicate charisma Monique?”Stay tuned.To your enhancement,Monique